April 30th, 2009 at 5:05 AM
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Updated the (bucket)list. But there’s alot of scrolling involved. Sorry. I’ll put anchors in later.
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Uggggg… Headache. Eyes hurt, but otherwise in good physical health. Today’s journal is going to be more of a series of notes. Speaking of which, Pay your journal, Jim!
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Leo sent me a message that said he got help. I’m not sure why, given the previous issues with distrust, and I am loathe to bring the subject up.
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Got the kids food. Luciene is really sick, didn’t want to eat anything. Ivy (Sara) chalked it up to him not having eaten and feeling really down. I disagree. I think he was sick, and decided not to eat because it made him sick. That, and he said that to me when I offered him food. He was also dry-heaving. Took him upstairs and sat him in his chair. He asked for a blankie. Let him stay there til 9, then made him eat 5 chicken nuggets. He went to bed. I put up the babygate and let Grandma know what was going on before I headed out to work.
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Didn’t sleep too well today. Had two separate visions, and neither of them pretty by any means. Decided to not go back to sleep. Stayed up and worked on a website dedicated to Dr. McCoy. Finished all the good information. Will be injecting the Comedy into it later. Http://dedjim.com
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Had an odd moment earlier. I was sitting on the couch and had a light doze. Saw someone butt naked, and it has taken me all day to figure out who it was. (Sorry Hon, but I’m going to embarass myself on this one.) It was Miss Victoria Paege.
Just for clarification, I have never, and highly doubt I ever will, see her in the nude, unless it’s on the big, silver screen. She is a good friend, and that kind of social awkardness is reserved for people far greater than myself. She is a fine dame, and kind to a fault. I don’t know where the thought came from, but it was out there, so I’m putting it in here, like everything else.
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Kayla seems a little better, after playing with the (stupid) dog. 
Just a little.
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And I have finally turned on the latitude for my phone. So, if you are a Google Latitude user, add my email and watch me peruse around town: Mr.lott(this is where the at sign goes)Gmail.com. Oh, and if you so desire, my BB PIN is: 30396℮14. Yes, I did just post those online.
I am desperately looking for a way to put a widget on my blog that has the mapping function from latitude. I think it would be spiffy! Alas, XML is not my favorite language, nor do I wish do download and use the Google API/Toolkit. Blegh.
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That’s about all I have to say for today.
Oh yeah, and…
PENIS!
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April 29th, 2009 at 6:30 AM
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Well then, Kayla has finally returned from her vacation with her parents. Why she called it a vacation when she went to see her parents, I will never know. She seems more stressed than when she left, and she worried about carryover into her job. .hugs.
I cleaned the apartment while she was gone, and did her laundry. She thinks it smells funny because I didn’t use her laundry detergent, but instead opted for what I had handy; but at least it only smells funny, and not Funky, right? I folded everything, and it is in baskets in her room. Attempted to clean the Piggies’ cages, but I failed epicly 7 minutes in due to allergy issues. Yeah, dander, alfalfa, dust, poop, and food particles plus my nose equal death. Lots of fun. Aside from that, and the pile of things that I didn’t dare touch/sort/throw away for fear of being shot 
, the apartment is clean!
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Went to a local fetish group’s coffee thing tonight. The people there were really nice, and very funny. I found most of them entertaining in one way or another. Most of them are a bit older than the groups I normally hang out with, but as I was leaving to go pick up Kayla from the Airport (I had to leave earlier than they had liked), some of the younger members started trickling in. The name of the group is TNG AZ. I haven’t been a member of a fetgroup since I was in highschool. Looking forward to meeting more like-minded people.
It’s really funny: We met up in Nielsens’ Frozen Custard: A.K.A.: The biggest Mormon hangout in the second biggest Mormon city in America. I love it. I laughed.
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I tried to be nice to Ivy (Sara) today. I was pooping, and it was around 7, so I asked her how her day was. She gave me the “OWR” (One-word Response), and I didn’t catch on. So, instead of leaving her alone, I tried to engage her in simple, friendly conversation. (I think it’s important for us to remain communicative throughout the divorce process, so that it will be easier on the children, scheduling, etc.) And her response was, “Did you need something?” Now, in all fairness, that is not mean, in it of itself. But in my mind, I could hear her with the tone of “Why the fuck are you talking to me?! – Go Away!” Why? Because that’s the only way she ever uses that phrase. .sigh. Ok, I’m bugging you, you’re busy, whatever – I get that. No need to be an ass about it.
What I don’t get, is that for the past 3 or 4 days, she’s been really nice, and we’ve been getting along. It’s just such a complete mood swing that I cannot comprehend what happened to irk her so.
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Went to see Scott. We hung out for a bit, had dinner in the De La Cruz Bistro. The waiter was fun-tastic. Picked up on Scott being gay, and made the whole time enjoyable. (He set out a candle, etc..) It was good food, and I’m glad I got some time in to see Scott. He just signed a lease to a new apartment, which means he is moving out of Killa’s on the 16th. I was volunteered to help. Yay!
On a related but semi-sparate note, I did get to see Killa today, and Eric. They are both looking radiant and well, despite Eric’s neck injury (No big hugs, he just came back from the Chiropractor).
Oh, and YAY for Erica! She was just promoted to ATS! no more dealing with customers!
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My kids are doing very well. I bought a little pool for them from Walgreens for $9.99 last week, and they haven’t been able to use it very much lately. So this weekend, I cleared out the pation, emptied and cleaned the pool, and setup while they were taking their naps. Amaris woke up promptly at 2 PM, and I opened Luciene’s door at that time as well.
Amaris ran downstairs at the mention of pool, and waited patiently at the glass door to the patio. Her eyes were lit up in a way I haven’t seen since her birthday. Luciene, on the other hand, was dead tired. He decided to come downstairs and collapse on the floor, on a large throw-pillow. I was bemused.
She played in the pool for about a half-hour before her brother joined her. I have some picutres of them playing that I will post once I get my laptop back up and running. (That’s a story for another time, Eggh!) After about 45 minutes, Amaris stands up and looks at me, “Da? I done. Iiiii…. Ca…ca…Cold.” She was shivering, andI took her in and cuddled her. Luciene was done soon after (The seem to be connected at the hips, these two – they are thick as theives!). He wasn’t as cold, but he totally wanted in on the cuddling. All in all, it was a great weekend.
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Oh, and this is important to me, because I am a STRONG advocate for Gay, Lesbian, Transgendered, Etc. rights. Please read it, and understand it.
http://accidentalmachines.com/media/?p=91
This is coming from the guy who refuses to eat meat if he doesn’t know how it was raised and killed. Damn skippy I will not be purchasing or supporting these guys anymore. Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but if you use the money you made off me by selling me a drink to run a hate campaign on things I respect
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April 25th, 2009 at 8:50 PM
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Geesh… Today blew monkey balls. I had multiple fights with Kayla. The were loud, and one of them was in person. Of course, in retrospect, I realize that this is an impossibility as she is in Texas. Yep. It has been one of those days.
Re-read my messages. We did have an actual fight, but only one. She made alot of good points, and I am making a thorough effort to address them by action.
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Scott was going to come over tonight, but he got the stomach flu. Poor kid.
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Kids were really good today. Gave them the stuff from Kayla. The really like the Rackets. You know… The ones I wasn’t going to give them immediately.
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April 25th, 2009 at 2:29 AM
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Got off work at 8.30 AM. Work was dull, and I was very tired. Went to the Apartment and fed the animals. Walked the dog and played with the rats. Dog was super-excited to see me. Rats are alwyas excited to see me. Began cleaning apartment. Did basic dishes, soaked stuckons. Used computer. Snuggled up to an imaginary Kayla. Went to sleep.
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April 23rd, 2009 at 9:41 PM
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Comment and I will:
Tell you why I friended you. (Or, like, some relevant equivalent for non-journal people.)
Associate you with something; fandom, a song, a colour, a photo, a word, et cetera.
Tell you something I like about you.
Tell you a memory I have of you.
Ask something I’ve always wanted to know about you.
Tell you my favourite user pic of yours.
In return, you must post this in your LJ/DW/blog/whatever.
Taken from: Void-Star.net; Originally from: Severedscythe
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April 22nd, 2009 at 6:46 PM
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Lol, this is my post from yesterday. It is incomplete, as I had only saved a draft, but: “That’ll do pig. That’ll do.”
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April 19th, 2009 at 7:59 PM
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Oh, and for those reading this via one of my thousand of crossposted journals, my actual journal has a new, fresh, updated look. That, and I finally made my Wiki section match it.
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April 19th, 2009 at 2:30 PM
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Called in sick to work on Friday. Wasn’t feeling too well. Slept though the night like a rock. Kayla’s friend, John, had just flown in from out of state (Look, I spelled it with a freaking “H” OK?), I think, Washington DC. I think, but am not sure. He is entertaining, and they spent most of the evening in the living room watching tele.
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April 15th, 2009 at 2:34 AM
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The last few days, my posts have been private. I’ve had alot to think about, and I just wanted some time to do it in an unfettered manner. Thank you.
P.S.: Shuddyup, Leo.
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